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Meilin Ehlke 0:19
When two creative minds come together, there is a lot of laughter. Because they have fun creating. This is how it is every time I come together with my beautiful guest Dorina, today who's sitting in sunny South Florida. So today, stay curious to what she brings. She has a vast wisdom, that she puts into anything she puts her mind on, creates, materializes, optimizes. So stay tuned to our beautiful episode today. Hello. I'm Meilin, the host of Moving To Oneness podcast. And dear Dorina wonderful to have you, that you took some time to speak with me and my audience? So, welcome to Moving To Oneness.
Dorina Lanza 1:49
Well, thank you for having me. Thank you so much. Good to see you again. Yeah.
Meilin Ehlke 1:54
Yeah. So yeah, I really love that about you. I think the first moment really your were, when I met you, you've been very quiet, you were very observant. And this is really a trait I love about you. It is like you take the time to take everything in, people, the surrounding, the circumstance. And when you then speak, it comes from the heart with everything that you have experienced, and the best intention and the best guidance for a person who's there to hear what you have to say. And that is a... Oh, what's the word that I want to say? It is the essence for me of a wise woman?
Dorina Lanza 2:51
Oh, [laughter] actually, the sage is one of my higher scoring archetypes.
Meilin Ehlke 2:59
Ahh!
Dorina Lanza 2:59
And it also, it also happens when you get old, you know? [chuckle] Well, not in all instances, I suppose, but one hopes, that it happens when one gets old.
Meilin Ehlke 3:10
Yeah, I would change. First of all, maybe you are getting older, a little bit. But you have still a long time ahead of you. That is for sure something because I think you are in the moment in a rejuvenation period. Because you are reinventing, reinventing is the wrong word, you're bringing really now all of you to the forefront and leaving that and living fully on purpose, why you're here on earth. And that, I think makes you shine more and by that, there starts to be a vibrancy within each cell of you, or me, or others who are on the same path. Right? And that rejuvenates. That makes free, easier, one needs less energy. Right? You know much more about that, than me because you are experiencing it every day.
Dorina Lanza 4:07
This is true. Yeah, well, you know, you get to a certain point where you become fully integrated. So many people are busy. You know, they may have a business and they're entirely focused on that business, and the only thing they do is to pick something, marketing, I don't do anything else. And they forget everything that they knew from previous experiences in this life, even never mind previous lives, that's a separate issue. And so many people never pull out and integrate all the wisdom that they've accumulated. They sell themselves short, figuring, well, you know, I'm not good enough. I'm not worthy, you know, the usual collection of the five core wounds and the missing rites that everybody pretty much suffers from, with their false map of reality as they experience life. And they really sell themselves short. And one thing that's really useful is looking around and seeing who elevates you, when you're hanging around with them. Who's vibrating at a higher level than you are vibrating. And if you hang around with your peers, you're never going to get past where you are. Never mind, if you hang out with people that are below, for sure isn't really the right term, but not as far along as you are, they'll drag you down. So you'll always want to be hanging around people that have gone further than you have. So you can absorb their way of being, their wisdom. And that will really add on to you, not only in the sense of making you more wise, [chuckle] but also you'll be able... Entrepreneurs, for instance, coaches, consultants, mentors, and I know a big group of these people listen to your podcast among others... you're going to attract a much higher level clientele, and they are going to get much, much better results, the more you step up, and mature and expand.
Meilin Ehlke 6:38
Yeah. So the two things that I'm hearing is to synchronize. If I put a shamanic word to it, right? We synchronize to the vibration of another person. Also, then if they're very clear, their movements, their vibration, right, it transfers, the wisdom transfers, that is a quick exchange, and to set out for people that have done what you have done. And also then when you have clients, I love that how you express that. Because if I have certain experiences, and I have done it, I can speak with a surety, right? There is no, it's the truth. It's the truth. And it's really the embodied truth, because I have gone through it, you have gone through it, and we've gone through it or the person you want to meet or aspire to understand, right? They have physically done it. And this is very empowering.
Dorina Lanza 7:39
It is. It kind of like the story of the four minute mile. It was, and I'm sure everybody's heard this story 100 times, but basically, it was believed that no human could run a mile faster than four minutes. And then one day Roger Bannister went and did it. And then all of a sudden, all these other people started breaking the four minute mile. Why? Because they saw that it was possible. And one of my big missions with my clients is to get them to think in a much bigger frame of reference, in terms of what they can accomplish with their clients, and also what they can charge. I mean, I'm talking to people about $100,000 plus offers now. And they're not very far fetched. If you're number one in your field, and yes, we can narrow your field down, so that you are number one in your field, and you have the right posture and your clients have gotten results in the past. Once you elevate yourself, you know, radiate the right type of energy, and this can be done by design. If you recognize what needs to be done, then you'll start attracting, you know, you'll be tripping over them. It's not like necessarily go looking for them. But you'll be at a cocktail party or something or at the yacht club or whatever it is. And you'll run into somebody who's just the absolute person who's looking for you.
Meilin Ehlke 9:18
Ja.
Dorina Lanza 9:20
And you can sort of do it intentionally using hyper targeting, making a list of your ideal 100 clients for instance, and begin building relationships with them. And then when the time is right, they will go, "Oh, I really need to work with this person". And it will be like this showed up out of the woodwork and all this by raising your beingness.
Meilin Ehlke 9:45
Yeah. So when we set the intention that people show up, I'm also a big believer of that. Right?
Dorina Lanza 10:13
Yeah.
Meilin Ehlke 9:54
You decide there has to be made a decision to do. Sometimes you can set the vision long before and it takes a little time to be courageous in a way enough to step forward and each person has their different tempo. Now for me, your Speedy Gonzales, Speedy Gonzalina,
Dorina Lanza 10:16
[Chuckle]
Meilin Ehlke 10:18
because you started very young going out into the world. At the beginning with sports, right? The showing what else, or asking yourself, if I understand this correctly? Who am I? What can I do physically? So, in a way you tested yourself, because I know you're someone who does not ask things of others you have not done yourself.
Dorina Lanza 10:42
This is true.
Meilin Ehlke 10:43
What did you learn? Because maybe I believe that is the first part. Yes, you can practice visioning. Like I remember when I was doing horseback riding, right, you can, in even in a room, imagine you're standing or sitting on a horse and developing your thighs by tightening your muscles, you probably learned that also, when you did the skiing competitions? Right?
Dorina Lanza 11:05
Yeah.
Meilin Ehlke 11:04
What can you give already a person a tip for embodying, that they can feel in their body that they can do it? And that they have that possibility to move on, if they think they can ?
Dorina Lanza 11:17
Yeah, well, there are a couple, there are a bunch of different levels at which you can do it. For skiing, for instance. They don't let you run through the slalom course before the race, right? So what do you have to do? What do you have to do? You have to essentially memorize the course. And then don't just visualize you have to become yourself skiing down the course and just feeling it and seeing a successful run. And you do it over and over and over. Swimming too, or ice skating, any kind of performance, football, baseball, you know, visualize that home run, whatever it is. So, that's one simpler level. And, you know, a lot of people say that, you can manifest a parking space. Which is kind of interesting, you know, I've never not found a place to park eventually. So anyway, maybe that's...
Meilin Ehlke 12:24
Maybe because you are Italian.
Dorina Lanza 12:24
[Laughter] like I'm finding a parking space, dammit. But in order to really achieve at a very high level in general, you need to become the person you need to be in order to have those things and events come to you, well before the things will come to you. For instance, let's say for the sake of argument, you're envisioning living in a big, beautiful house overlooking the ocean, and having a Bentley in the driveway, and I don't know, a full time chefs and a beautiful house and a great partner, beautiful clothes, lots of time to do whatever you want. When you look out your own window, you don't see that you're looking at a brick wall, or whatever it is that you're looking at, you know, the next door neighbor, or whatever it is, you see the view you want to see the ocean. When you look around your house, you don't look around at your one bedroom apartment, or whatever it is your studio apartment, you see, and you don't only see, you need to smell it, you need to taste it, you gotta feel it, you've gotta just be it. And once you're regularly being that you will begin to attract people and things that will allow you to finally have that stuff come into your life. Because I believe, from the physics perspective, that there are n dimensions where n goes to infinity. Yes, I have most of them PhD in math, and I was a professor at the University for years, first in the Math Department, then in the Business School. But anyway, so in that framework, and I know I have a good friend who's a top physicist, and we have arguments, he says there are 13 dimensions and I am like no, it goes to infinity, you're going to find more because the mathematics exists. But basically, if you look at that, everything that has ever happened or will happen, or could have had happened, or might happen, already exists. So it's an issue of pulling in from you know what already is into your reality.
Meilin Ehlke 15:04
That is important, it's a little hard for some people, but let's find an easy one. Into reality, you could practice with getting the sunshine or you know, that is the not so personal. But everything material is coming together to form one thing or the other. And we humans have the knowledge, it's built within us, it's our natural state, so hone into it and practice. We can create and dissolve. You can practice on your body, sometimes you can see weight does come on and never comes off because you worried. So this worrying you hold this way material.
Dorina Lanza 15:52
And you are expecting to be fat
Meilin Ehlke 15:54
Genau. But, suddenly, when you get happy and your body is active, you know, you're letting go because you're already somewhere else, you're not even worried, you're not holding this material anymore, and it's going and you're losing it. This is maybe a very good example.
Dorina Lanza 16:08
It is. That is a good example.
Meilin Ehlke 16:10
We can form also and decide for things to come together. And maybe in shopping. You may have noticed that you go, you have a trip and you know you need ABC for sure you need those things, because in your mind, you see yourself on stage or in a certain pair of shoes or you know the climate is this way, right, wherever you go. So, you may have observed and I bet you have observed this already once, when you go then shopping, you find exactly those things because you honed in and became very precise, very focused of what you really need. Because your suitcase is rather small. This is a good practice, right? We have to become very picky what we put into that suitcase. And you'll notice you go out and you'll find exactly those things. They appear. But they didn't appear, you created them to be there for you or even long before. And I love how you said that Dorina, it is created long before because you make many decisions before.
Dorina Lanza 17:16
Hm, hm.
Meilin Ehlke 17:16
Maybe you made a decision to be on stage, three years before and maybe you even picked the city, and suddenly the moment is there. But in that time, you also picked what to wear.
Dorina Lanza 17:25
[Chuckle]
Meilin Ehlke 17:27
Yeah and this is something to recognize and it's not... There's the S word people like to use...
Dorina Lanza 17:36
Synchronicity,
Meilin Ehlke 17:37
Yes. It's not synchronicity. It is you who created it. And so, if you become very clear and understand that you created it, you can create anything that Dorina is speaking about it, because Dorina you took, you know, you took your sport into mathematics, into the heavens, into the skies. But then you moved. Yeah, you said you went into business, you went even into the stock market, a whole different number. And even there, you weren't afraid and you have Fingerspitzengefühl as we say in German, you can touch things and have an understanding of it. So and even there you created vast amounts of currencies for people, for yourself. So, how did you take that knowledge into the monetary and the currency?
Dorina Lanza 18:34
Well, okay. When I work with clients, basically, I work with peak performers to unleash their potential. Okay, that's basically what I do. And we get into many different fields. You know, business, personal, how other companies running, how they get clients, all that stuff, because of my background, I can address all that stuff. But one of the most actually two of the most important things that I do with my clients is we go through and we figure out what their dominant archetypes are. And archetypes are stories, beings that have been around since the beginning of time. Essentially, you've got the ruler, the magician, the jester, the sage, the lover, etc. Jung came up with 12 of them. And if you know your archetype, then you're closer to learning about your real self. The archetypes change as you get older, and my primary is ruler, and actually I've got four that scored on top, ...
Meilin Ehlke 19:54
Super. I has to be, because you did so many things. [Chuckle]
Dorina Lanza 19:55
...ruler, magician, rebel and sage.
Meilin Ehlke 20:02
So, you are a rebel I can see.
Dorina Lanza 20:01
Anyway, so they're all dominant. So I picked the ruler as my main one. And there's a lot of rebel in there too.
Dorina Lanza 20:06
But anyway, there's also something else going on. When you were small, you developed the map of reality. And that map of reality is a function of a well made, you end up with a particular type of mind type. And I happened to be a master, innovator rebel. And the way I became a master and this took, and this is, this is why anything I do on like, "How hard could it be?" Especially, if somebody has done it before? It's like, "Well, look, they did it. How hard could it be?" but those are the words that just fall out of my mouth. And masters are known for, you know, you become essentially a polymath or an encyclopedic synthesis, because you wind up going and really, really deep in anything that you're interested in looking at. In fact, my I have a friend who is also a master, and he got into cast iron pans. And he had to know exactly why and how and how best to get cast iron pans, to be the least stick resistant, and so on and so forth. It's like, "Hubert. Okay." That was after he figured out everything about martinis, how do you make the perfect Martini.
Dorina Lanza 21:33
So anyway, even with mundane stuff, it's not like you have a master who studies physics or rocket science like me, or you know, all this business with the brain and helping people get to their most advanced state. We just go really, really deep in anything we do. And what I do with people, is we figure out their mind type. And then we go back and figure out why and how they develop that mind type. And when I was small, I got the message, that I wasn't good enough, I wasn't worthy. So my way of correcting was to become so unbelievably good at whatever I did, whether it was coloring in a circle, or you know. You know, I'm two years old, right? [Chuckle] And that's the way I reacted to the external stimuli. Other people with those types of stimuli they wind up into a shell and never emerge. So, it seems like there's one extreme or the other.
Meilin Ehlke 22:39
I went the other extreme when I was young. I froze.
Dorina Lanza 22:43
You froze? Yeah. So you had the other extreme. And what's interesting for people like me, and I find that it is very prominent in first born, the eldest, if you're the eldest child, and you're a daughter, and your father really wanted a boy that gets ingrained in you. So no matter how successful you are, you still have this garbage going on. And you know, you're unhappy or miserable, you just like things could be a lot better. Those are the kinds of people I wind up working with, and we can clear all that stuff. But it really goes back to your reaction to what happened to you when you were a child. Plus, there's also previous life stuff going on to that. And a few of you want to get into that or not, but there's also pattern repetition there, and past karma that manifests in subsequent lives and so on. That's probably subject for another conversation.
Meilin Ehlke 23:51
Yeah for an other. Today, it's all the light is on you. Yeah. In this life's time. [Chuckle]
Dorina Lanza 23:55
Yeah. So yeah, so anyway, so the reason that I'm able to do what I do, which is basically come in, how hard could it be? Well, if it can be done, I can do it. Right? I mean, not want to, like only do things that, that I can be great at. I don't do things that I be mediocre at. I just don't bother, because I don't care enough to become great at tennis, for instance, I don't care. Right? But, you know, skiing, I have to be the best. Why? Because I became essentially one of the best and I need to stay there. Right? So whatever a master chooses to do, they need to they need to become the best at. So, it's in my ingrained nature, that causes me to be able to do the things that I do, and other masters will do the same thing. If you're a connector for instance, you're not you're not going to be able to do what a master does. So it's not something you can really train on. But you can use whatever the strengths of your mind type are, in order to leverage your positioning to get to that level you want to be at. I just happen to have the master path going on and other people have their paths. And the issue is to maximize them, so that they can operate at levels they never thought possible.
Meilin Ehlke 25:16
I think I love that, if someone sees and it's your intention, this is really important. Your intention is to get the optimal state out of a person, and to make them comfortable with their optimal state.
Dorina Lanza 25:51
Mmm. Yeah.
Meilin Ehlke 25:52
And I applaud you for that. Instead of creating something for others to follow, because you've done it. And yes, even though you have done all these different things.
Meilin Ehlke 26:02
And everyone she went, if I can say? Dorina, when you became a mother, you decided to work a little bit from home a went into multileveled marketing, right? And there you became number 25, salesperson in the world. So it's not just as a number.
Dorina Lanza 26:11
I was number 25 trainer. No, actually one of the top 25 trainers in the world. Wow. So
Meilin Ehlke 26:33
Wow. Sorry. So you. see So when you make a decision, this is really important to watch for, to make clear, when you decide to go, you go.
Dorina Lanza 26:44
Right. Exactly.
Meilin Ehlke 26:45
But even if you maybe have then a connector who maybe is not a goer, you still have enough experience because of your university experience and of being trained a lot by people that are able. Because I think it's still not done enough for good trainer, a good Master, a good manager, a good coach, a good healer, yeah, to help a person unfold their best, what they are really good in. And you come in and help them to become even better, or help them with the things that lets them become even better in what they do already good.
Dorina Lanza 26:45
Exactly.
Meilin Ehlke 26:45
It's so important. And that's one of my, I am not gonna say wish, I'm going to turn it into a need, a desire and an intention and even an intent, that this change on the world, that we are being recognized for what we bring. So that we all on this Earth, humanity as a whole become comfortable to unfold more and more, while you're here even on this earth. And that is what you're doing more and more now. And more and more successful in exactly that. As you are showing more of who you are, and why you're here on this Earth at this moment in this time. Yeah, this is very important as well. And it is here for you, for others to unfold. I love that.
Dorina Lanza 28:24
Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, exactly. And, you know, one of the big disservices that happens in this coaching, mentoring, whatever you want to call it industry, is that so many people get tied up with mentors in quotes, who tried to get them to become just like the mentor, don't recognize that they're different people. And if you want to be successful in any area, you've got to be you. And if you're looking to attract the right people, you need to show up as the ideal you and then get into branding and all that stuff. But so many people are trying to look like Frank Kern or Grant Cardone or god I can't even think of her name now I can see her face. But anyway, you know, all these people that are making money, some more, others less. You can't duplicate their success by trying to become them. So, stop it. And people right now are really tending towards wanting to be with people who are authentic. And one of the questions that I get asked quite a bit is, "Okay, well if you're a ruler archetype, do you only work with rulers? Will you only attract rulers? And the answer answer's no. As long as you show up as who you authentically are people will see you and go, "Wow, she's being really authentic". And a certain subset will be drawn to you. Others will go run screaming in the opposite direction, which is fine. You know, I don't attract orphans, for instance, they go screaming in the opposite direction. And, but I do attract a lot of magicians, I attract rulers, I attract rebels, and I, interestingly, attract idealists, also.
Dorina Lanza 28:57
Yeah, to change the world. To make it more beautiful for all of us.
Dorina Lanza 30:41
Exactly. Oh, and warriors too. I used to be a warrior. So. [Laughter]
Meilin Ehlke 30:46
That is not needed anymore, as you said before, so beautifully. We change with time, but it's not only us who changes it's the energies and what is needed and what wants to be discovered in this time on this Earth.
Dorina Lanza 31:04
Yeap, exactly, exactly. So you know, expect the shift and get help in sorting yourself out, you know, find somebody to work with that can help you get yourself sorted out. I have to tell you, it cost a hell of a lot of money. And it cost me decades, decades to figure this out. I mean, I've been around a long time. And some of these discernments I've only come up with in the last 5 to 10 years. So you know, don't waste your time. You go for the shortcuts.
Meilin Ehlke 31:42
Yeah, and this is another thing. It's an interesting conversation. You know, because the world was very dense. So it needed for you, for me, maybe a little less, to experience certain things to transform, to bring out of the non material things into the material world into existence. Yeah? But the density is getting less, as time is going on, as the energy and the vibration is changing, and even of us humans. So now, things are speeding up. So transformation setting, intention or visions, they happen much quicker. Also, the universe is starting to close quicker before it took ages. And now you know, if you do a good ritual or ceremony, and many people come together for certain intention, within 24 hours it's there. Even faster, right?
Dorina Lanza 32:42
Right.
Meilin Ehlke 32:43
Because there is this geballte Kraft, it's a good German expression, but it is this all encompassing, in a way not forced power, yeah, in a way, yes. Because there can be an up lifting or compressing. So it can be uplifted, that's how it feels. So that means everything we start now, or everything, you start dear listener, goes much quicker now.
Dorina Lanza 33:12
Right.
Meilin Ehlke 33:11
So, please become courageous. First to take the time as Dorina says, to look at who you are? What you love to do? Maybe if you don't have anyone around you at the moment, many of us are no more alone, then go into nature sit in the sun. Let the sun soak in and get yourself support from that by feeling embraced. To get to these answers of those questions, and maybe even change the landscape or the places where you do it. Because each time you ask the question, you get more insight with a new answer. Right? Do that. And then set out to envision really, what do you love to do? Where do you want to go? What and who do you want to take along? Yeah, who do you want you to be your support team? Who do you want to be pushed by? Who do you want to push or uplift, a dance with? All these things. Do it! I really invite you to play, to envision, to dream, whatever words that are comfortable for your vocabulary to do that and do it maybe in different positions. Some people are really good in thinking when they are lying down. Many of us, too many, are sitting up or sitting at the table or want to write maybe don't do that. Just lay down and if you do want to record maybe use a telephone and speak your thoughts into the recorder. So you have to try out different ideas to get to where you want, to get to recognize you. Right Would you say that as well, Dorina?
Dorina Lanza 34:59
Yeah. I like the idea of the different positions. I seem to come up with stuff when I'm walking. So, I do five miles on the beach. When you want a change of scenery come to Florida, we're free here. [Laughter] Yeah, we're good, we're good.
Meilin Ehlke 35:16
We are still locked in.
Dorina Lanza 35:17
In fact, the governor just sent out a mandate saying that no local or county governments can impede the freedom of the citizens of Florida. The local and county governments are still trying, but it's a major step in the right direction. But anyway, yeah, do the different positions and have your phone with you. So you can record interesting ideas and figure out how to record before you get the idea. Instead of fumbling with your phone, like me? Saying, "How does this thing record? Something else I would suggest, is that you go through an exercise, and many of you may have done this already. But if you haven't done it recently, do it again, design your ideal life. Where you want to live? What does your day look like? What do you do? You know, in all aspects of your life. And once you have it designed, figure out how much it would cost to implement that. You know, if one of your things is you have to do five miles on the beach every day, well, that's free. Right? That doesn't cost anything. So you can do that now. If you want to live in a big beautiful house for lack of imagination here, a big beautiful house. You don't have to buy it, you can rent it. Right? You want to drive a I don't know a Rolls Royce. What's the new one called? Ghost. You don't have to buy it for $300,000 or whatever it is. You can lease it for under 5k a month.
Meilin Ehlke 37:09
Or rent it for a day to experience it or figure out why did you want to drive it? Yeah, exactly.
Dorina Lanza 37:14
Yeah, you may change your mind. It's like, "Man this thing is heavy."
Dorina Lanza 37:22
So and you know, do you do want to be going skiing? Do you want to be going scuba diving? Do you want to be doing this, that and the other thing? One thing you want to avoid is sitting there saying something, I'm going to say it's ridiculous because it's nowhere near enough money, "Oh, if I just had a million bucks, I could do all this stuff". We'll actually no the numbers probably is closer to 10, but quantify it and see what kind of cash flow you need to support the lifestyle you want. And also focus on finding a way to invest in assets that will wind up paying you more than your regular business does so that you have a choice.
Meilin Ehlke 38:10
Yeah, it creates freedom.
Dorina Lanza 38:12
Yeah, yeah. So don't go spending all the money before you have it. Or even when you get it. Before you have it's even worse. So, you know there's a little bit of analysis involved and then something else. Every morning when you get up. Exercise first thing and write down your goals even before you exercise not the goals for the day. Your goals. I want to have the big house. I need to have the whatever it's called the ghost car. I need to have a giant pearl necklace or I need to have the best champagne in the house or whatever it is. List those goals, 30 seconds each day. You want to build a habit.
Meilin Ehlke 39:00
Yeah, that in a way that you even allow yourself to think this way or let those things come close to you.
Dorina Lanza 39:09
Hm, hm.
Meilin Ehlke 39:09
That's it. So, then another nice thing that is... I remember I did that a few times when I lived more in the countryside and I wanted to be more again with people, surrounded by a little big city, I missed New York
Dorina Lanza 39:29
You don't miss it now, trust me.
Meilin Ehlke 39:40
No, I was there when I was younger.
Dorina Lanza 39:42
[chuckle]
Meilin Ehlke 39:44
But then I would go to a nice hotel and drink tea there. Or have, you know, Germans love cake time.
Dorina Lanza 39:49
[laughter] cake time.
Meilin Ehlke 39:51
Or have a nice evening. And I did that also for my son. I wanted him to experience different lifestyles. You know, he was even in a Waldkindergarten where he was outdoors all the day, in nature and you know running around all day. But I also wanted to show him different worlds. I tried to show him different things. I also took him out nice to show him how you sit and eat. To experience what do you feel. Or how you can observe the energy of other people? Because that's also important. You synchronize with the energy of a space, too.
Meilin Ehlke 40:21
So that is also really important when we talk about nature, but you can also sync to furniture which have an energy so does texture. Where do you notice it? Where don't you allow yourself to feel the energy of objects or a space? Maybe a nice cup can be one thing where you love to drink out. Or a glass, where the wine, or the water or the tea that you put in there, tastes fantastic. So at that moment you let yourself flavor, everything. And what is good for you? So, observe more and more, what makes you soft and gentle, and lets you feel light? Right?
Dorina Lanza 41:03
Yeah.
Meilin Ehlke 41:04
This is a way to practice on top of what Dorina mentioned, these great tips.
Dorina Lanza 41:05
Very good suggestions, absolutely. In fact, I remember before my daughter went to college, there, I don't even know if they're doing this anymore, but up in Boston, we were living outside of Boston at the time, there was this very fancy hotel, and every Sunday they had a chocolate buffet.
Meilin Ehlke 41:30
Uhhh.
Dorina Lanza 41:31
Everything was some kind of chocolate something. Oh my god, beautiful, you know, the waiter with the white gloves, white tablecloth. And every year for her birthday, we took a particular friend of hers and the friend's mother. I would take them out to this chocolate buffet and it became a ritual, but it was an experience that most people never experience. You know, just a very elegant unique type of experience. You know also going skiing. I mean how many people don't experience being at the top of the mountain with the power of just flying down nice and relaxed with a beautiful view. You know, so I think what you did with your son is fantastic. And I was thinking back and go, yeah you know actually I did that with Alexandra, because we did this and this. I took her to Bermuda, etc., etc.
Meilin Ehlke 42:31
Yeah, it's always a little bit here and there. When it feels right, that is an important point. It should never feel pushed. If you get the idea, you know, it comes into your mind for a reason, that's really important. So start acting on the intuition and the thoughts that you get, that should be done, and don't push them aside. Even, if they're dreams, if you suddenly get "go there" and you ask yourself, "Oh, how can I get there?" Find a way there are 10,000 ways to get to point B from point A, or as you said Dorina, there are unlimited ways...
Dorina Lanza 43:01
Yeah. Right.
Meilin Ehlke 43:03
... from point A to point B. So, explore and do that by yourself, reach out to people that you know. Reach out to Dorina. Okay, Dorina how can people reach and find you? And say, "Uh, I want to work with this ruler, this rebel, this master, the Universe and beyond."
Dorina Lanza 43:22
Yeah, I'm very easy to find, since I'm the only one in the world. The only Dorina Lanza in the world, so very easy to find first of all. I have two websites. One is called. It's long, but it's easy 'Circle of Elite Entrepreneurs.com Make sure you spell entrepreneurs correctly, some people don't, we won't get there. And then of course there's also Dorina Lanza dot com, and this will be in the show notes.
Meilin Ehlke 43:57
Yes, it will be.
Dorina Lanza 44:00
I also have a gift for the people listening to this, I put a little cheat sheet together.
Meilin Ehlke 44:10
That is nice.
Dorina Lanza 44:11
It's very pretty, on archetypes, and for each archetype I tell you what, that archetype's spiritual contract is, you know why they exist. And then I have a blurb in the description. Then I have a blurb of how to deal with clients that are presenting that archetype, how they want to be treated.
Meilin Ehlke 44:38
Oh, that is important to know.
Dorina Lanza 44:40
If you can glean what the archetype is of a prospect, more or less. Right? This will help you figure out how to get through to them in a way which will cause them to have a positive reaction to you. That will be circle of elite entrepreneurs dot com, forward slash, gift.
Meilin Ehlke 45:06
That's easy to remember.
Dorina Lanza 45:07
Right.
Meilin Ehlke 45:08
So anyway, don't worry if you didn't get it, I have it in the show notes. If you're watching this, it's below the video. And you can always reach me and ask me. Dorina is also in our Facebook group Moving To Oneness, so you can reach her there to ask her questions. Reach out, because we're building also a community. Right? Oneness it means we're coming together, this is also now the time. And this is so beautiful and know you're not alone. Yeah, and that we have each other, and we've got each other's back. We can nudge each other forward and uplift each other. This is the time to be WE.
Dorina Lanza 45:54
Exactly.
Meilin Ehlke 45:56
Dorina, any last wisdom of the wise woman, the sage, as you said.
Meilin Ehlke 46:02
The sage. Right!
Meilin Ehlke 46:04
For the world. It doesn't have to be about your work. Anything that comes now, in the moment.
Dorina Lanza 46:12
Know yourself to such a deep level, that you maximize your personal potential. So that, when you're sitting on that rocking chair when you're 121 years old, and you're not sitting there going, "Oh, I should have done this, I could have done that. I wish I had done this. I wish I had done the other thing". Focus on maximizing your existence.
Meilin Ehlke 46:39
Yes. I have nothing to add. So beautiful, Dorina. Thank you, for taking you afternoon to listen to what is to be brought to the world, and to share that with the Moving To Oneness audience. So thank you, very much, the best to you in spreading your wisdom to the world, and supporting more and more and more people in becoming their optimal best. Yeah, in every moment of their life.
Meilin Ehlke 47:17
And you out there, do the same, whatever you can nudge yourself to, begin with that. Whatever feels comfortable, do that, and then if you're ready, invite someone in your life to nudge you even further. Thank you very much for listening to the Moving To Oneness podcast. This is Meilin from Germany and I wish you a wonderful time. Bye, bye.